Tuesday, September 02, 2008

What is "Project Baby Rhodesbud"?

I'm on a mission. Mission: Impregnable. Here is the history:

I have 4 sisters and 2 brothers. I love them all so much I can't even describe it. We all married just the most perfectly perfect spouses and made plans for our future families. Time has passed and just as you might expect, not all of our plans have worked out exactly as we had imagined. It has been almost 12 years since the first of us married and started a family. Children began to arrive in most of our new little family units. As time goes on it has become apparent that it is easier for some of us to get pregnant than others. There is no medical rhyme of reason. All the "parts" are working. But one of my dear sisters has not been able to have children. She and her husband have been working with doctors and trying to be patient for their children to arrive for 7 years. They have undergone many tests and procedures, the most recent and drastic (not to mention expensive!) of which was In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). We all prayed our hearts out. We fasted. We hoped. And then we all wept with her when it did not result in a prenancy. What do you do when your resources are spent, but your desire to have children still burns in your heart?



As brothers and sisters we are determined to help our sister and her husband continue this journey to parenthood. We are smart, creative people who will find a way to get something done if it is worth doing. And this is most assuradly worth every ounce of our efforts! We have a goal to raise $20,000 to help finance 3 more rounds of IVF for our sister. Based on her medical history, the doctors believe she is a good candidate for IVF success. Hopefully it won't take 3 rounds. But if for some reason they are not able to become pregnant after 3 rounds, the clinic will refund the money and it may then be used to fund the expenses involved with adoption. With such odds for success, how could we not help them raise this money, and fast?


There are several ways we plan on raising money, the first of which I will tell you today. This may only happen little by little. But between the seven of us siblings, we believe we can rally the support of friends and family and reach our goal of $20,000 in 6 months: March 1. We can do this!

Today my husband and I finally listed all of the things in our house on Craigs List that we have been intending to get rid of for months. It was like some kind of miracle! Within 12 hours we sold all but two of the items and raised $200! We are already 1% of the way to our goal of $20,ooo! Do YOU have anything you would like to get rid of? Once you sell that old chair that you've never really liked we'd be happy to accept those few dollars as a donation to the Baby Rhodesbud Fund. You can click on the "Baby Rhodesbud" logo at the top right of my blog and it will take you to a PayPal account. An official bank account is currently being set up to house the funds until it is time to pay for the procedures. We'll keep you updated on our fund-raising progress here on my blog. Together we can do this!

Check out the post below for toys I am selling to raising money for "Project Baby Rhodesbud".

20 comments:

Abby said...

I sure love you!

Monster Mary said...

You never cease to amaze me. Such a wonderful thing to do. Sometimes I just hate money so much. I'll think about what I can do. My funds are so limited right now but I'm sure I can come up with something too.

I loved being your neighbor and getting to know your siblings too. Such fun people. My heart and prayers will be with you too. My sister didn't try for 7 years but she's had a few miscarriages and 3 failed adoptions. It's so hard to feel that heartache for the ones you love. She did adopt a little boy three years ago.
Fun to see all those pictures too. :)

Yolanda said...

You are a great sis!

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Jadie said...

Okay, let's try this again...

What a sweet thing to do. I'd love to preorder a blue I Spy toy. I'll get you $15 at the next bookclub.

littlesport said...

Great idea, and best luck. I'll send fertile thoughts their way. When we were planning on ivf, we considered offering "naming rights" (for the middle name) to whichever grandparent wanted to pony up some cash (minimum bid, $5000). Also, we were thinking that $1000 would purchase a seat in the delivery room . . . Ok, tacky, perhaps, and fortunately, we didn't need to go with ivf, but it's sooooo expensive, every little bit to help encourage generous participation from family members to keep posterity coming . . .

JP said...

CA is KINDA one of my favorite people ever...so I'm looking to see what I can do to. :)

Also...the pictures of your family are just wonderful. BEAUTIFUL family!!!

What an awesome thing...

Julie said...

Great cause-- I'm in:)

Kelly(M&M) said...

When I grow up-can I be an Oscarson? Well, at least an honorary one? I love your family. I am so amazed by your big heart and your willingness to give your time and talents. Please keep me posted with what I can do. I love you!!

mo said...

We're 100% in. Dad and I are listing the dining room set on Craig's list and all proceeds will go the baby fund.

HappyBack said...

One time, my older brother rallied all of my siblings together to make fun of me for about 45 minutes straight.

This is a lot like that, but a lot nicer. I'm gonna do what I can to help.

Bek said...

As a fellow infertile who now has bio AND adoptive kids, I can understand a smidge of what they are feeling. I have never seen such an offer from a fertility clinic.. that is amazing... There is all kinds of ways to grow a family and I know while our family isn't what I pictured all those years ago, I wouldn't change it now....

I also had the pleasure to live with Miss Carrie in Scotland when we were missionaries. I happen to know what a wonderful, caring and sweet woman she is and what a great mamma she will be...

I just emptied my bank account w/ all the Nie Nie stuff..but I will be happy to make/sell silhouettes for anyone that wants them for their kids... Sara, maybe we can come up with a post about them....

If you have seen the Nie Nie ones, it is the same thing (except I don't paint them..I print them on photo paper...). Maybe 25$ a shot paid directly to the fund???? Would something like that work?? I can come up with some samples...

What a good sister you are.

ALISA said...

I commend you on your selfless efforts to help your family. I also am one of seven siblings, and our family's "plans" have not turned out like we thought either. I am still the only one married (after almost 13 years), with six perfectly eligible, beautiful, successful single siblings - many of which have no prospects in sight. My four little angels will grow up without any cousins, and it hurts sometimes. Your family's pictures are beautiful, and I wish the best for your sister. Unfortunately, I don't have much to offer. (I am currently trying to raise $$$ for my youngest sister's cancer treatments.)

Wendy said...

OH Sarah, I cryed when Carrie told me what you were doing. I think that is the sweetest thing a sister can do. I'm in. I just need to scout out my house and figure out what needs to go. Thanks for giving us the opportunity to help. I sooooo want Carrie and Todd to have a baby too.

Lisa M. said...

I am totally in.

I really wish I were part of the family!

Great idea.

andrea said...

well look at that. first of all, i just have to comment about how many little o'fish there are. it's like a whole school swimming around. yikes.

second of all, what a super idea. i will talk to my husband and we'll see what we can contribute. you guys are amazing.

andrea said...

ps i know this may seem nosy, but is there some kind of update widget you can post? i would really be interested to see how far this goes.
but that's me being nosy.
but then again... it would be cool to see...

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Janice said...

What a great and wonderful thing you are doing here. I have 6 sisters and 2 brothers of my own and I am certain any of us would do something this drastic for one of our siblings. Aren't sisters the best?

I am going to go to your pay pal account and contribute what I can. I will need to discuss with my husband first, but I will. I found this blog from the Marathon Mommies blog, and what a great blog that is as well. I just moved from Utah to Kentucky this summer and have been searching for running blogs to keep me motivated with my marathon training and goals. Anyways, back to the real topic, I will pray for your sister. Children are wonderful. Mine help keep me grounded.

Melzie said...

What a lovely thought. I would help, but we've done 4 rounds of IVF, and well.. oh well. I did wish you, them, and everyone luck. If everyone in this situation had a loving family such as you... so blessed...